Be Human First N Then Human Being.....

Because Your Wife DOES NOT WORK....???"

The following are Questions and Answers between Husband (H) and A Psychologist (P):
P : What do you do for a living Mr. Bandy?
H : I work as an Accountant in a Bank.

P : Your Wife ?
H : She doesn't work. She's a Housewife only.

P : Who makes breakfast for your family in the morning?
H : My Wife, because she doesn't work.

P : At what time does your wife wake up for making breakfast?
H : She wakes up at around 5 am because she cleans the house first before making breakfast.

P : How do your kids go to school?
H : My wife takes them to school, because she doesn't work.

P : After taking your kids to school, what does she do?
H : She goes to the market, then goes back home for cooking and laundry. You know, she doesn't work.

P : In the evening, after you go back home from office, what do you do?
H : Take rest, because I'm tired due to all day works.

P : What does your wife do then?
H : She prepares meals, serving our kids, preparing meals for me and cleaning the dishes, cleaning the house then taking kids to bed.

From the story above, who do you think works more???
The daily routines of your wives commence from early morning to late at night. That is called 'DOESN'T WORK'??!!
Yes, Being Housewives do not need Certificate of Study, even High Position, but their ROLE/PART is very important!
Appreciate your wives. Because their sacrifices are uncountable. This should be a reminder and reflection for all of us to understand and appreciate each others roles.
All about a WOMAN ....
When she is quiet, millions of things are running in her mind.
When she stares at you, she is wondering why she loves you so much in spite of being taken for granted. When she says I will stand by you, she will stand by you like a rock.
Never hurt her or take her wrong or for granted...

The Video That Will Change Your Life Unlike Mine

THE SECRET (HINDI)

The Secret is a best-selling 2006 self-help book written by Rhonda Byrne, based on the earlier film of the same name. It is based on the law of attraction and claims that positive thinking can create life-changing results such as increased wealth, health, and happiness. The book has sold more than 19 million copies worldwide and has been translated into 46 languages.

THE SECRET (ENGLISH)

Perform Virtual Pooja

Virtual Pooja Pooja is a sacred practice performed on different occasions to worship, pray or show your due respect to the God. To explain better, Pooja is as an act of showing reverence to the almighty through invocations, prayers (like mantra, slokas), songs, rituals and so on. Praising the God through poojas helps establish a spiritual connection between the deity and the devotee.

Not every one of us has the time or commitment to sit before the Lord's statue/picture and offer poojas to him, in this demanding world! After all, every human being has his/her own commitment in life. Astroved brings to you, a virtual pooja where you can spend just a few minutes over your PC to perform a pooja! When computers have become the most important part of everyone's life, we have designed a virtual pooja, which can again be performed through your PC by itself!

For each planet, we offer an incense - a sweet smell to draw the Lord to us, a coconut that we break - a symbol of our human spirit, light a ghee lamp - so they can see us and ghee for their enjoyment, flowers - a symbol of space energy which transcends the Earth plane to be received where they are, music, their mantras, and the pure tones of a bell. The Virtual Poojas are effective in communicating your desire to be in tune with the planets. There are many Gods for which poojas can be perform.

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WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND..........

I Love U Mom and Dad

Heart Touching Story From Animated Movie UP. Hindi version...

I wish I could have same Love Story of my own..

Significance of 7 Vows in Indian Marriages

Significance of 7 Vows in Indian Marriages Hindu marriages is the 'seven vows' signified by the sacred 'saat pheras' around fire or 'agni', which is one of the most imperative rituals of Indian weddings. With each 'phera' the couple makes a vow, a commitment with strong mythological roots, which is to be lived forever and more, its only then that a couple is accepted as husband and wife for the next many lives to come.
These seven vows are supposed to serve as an anchor to keep the couple going through all the ups and downs of life together, as husband and wife tied to each other in a sacred relationship.

First vow
The couple appeals to the almighty to shower blessings in the form of pure and nourishing food with a respectful and noble life. The groom pledges to provide welfare and happiness to his wife and children, whereas the bride swears to shoulder all responsibilities for the welfare of the groom's entire family.

Second vow
The groom requests the bride to be his strength so that he can provide security and protect the family with courage. The bride agrees to abide by, while demanding eternal love and undivided attention.

Third vow
The couple pleads for wisdom, wealth, and prosperity in order to live a content and satisfied life. They pledge to remain spiritually committed and the bride assures the groom that by the virtue of true love and devotion she will remain a chaste wife.

Fourth vow
The groom thanks his would-be wife for bringing auspiciousness, happiness, and sacredness in his life. In return, the bride takes an oath to serve and please her husband in every way possible. Together, they also pledge to take care and respect their elders in the family.

Fifth vow
The importance of the fifth vow is to pray for the welfare of all the living things in this Universe and begetting a noble breed. The couple also prays to almighty to bless each other's friends and family with happiness and well-being.

Sixth vow
In the sixth vow, God is invoked to bless the couple for bountiful seasons and long lived togetherness. The groom wishes that his wife would glut his life with joy and peace; while the bride provides assurance that she would participate with her husband in all his noble and divine acts.

Seventh vow
This is the last vow adding completion to the ceremony. Here the couple pleads for the long lasting relationship, enriched with understanding and loyalty. They take an oath to nourish their relationship with love and honesty and be together with each other forever not only in this life, but also in the lives to come.

Even though different religions and cultures have their own unique set of vows and different ways to perform them, the basic meaning of all remains the same. 'commitment', a vow of being spiritually united as one.

When do relationships need an exit strategy?

When do relationships need an exit strategy?
I read an article on yahoo and would like to share with my readers as I literally and truly believe each and every word of it. Hope u would agree with me on some point too.


My latest blog post is inspired by a status update that my friend put up; he says, "If you want to have a happy ending, you got to know when to end the story...." No matter how precious your relationship is, an exit strategy is imperative.
I am not a big fan of sharing relationship advice and quotations on Facebook but this one aptly explains my point, "At some point you will realize that you have done too much for someone, that the only next possible step to do is to stop. Leave them alone. Walk away. It's not like you're giving up, and it's not like you shouldn't try. It's just that you have to draw the line of determination from desperation. What is truly yours will eventually be yours, and what is not, no matter how hard you try, will never be."
Often I have heard friends complain about how badly they have been treated in relationships, how they always attract the wrong kind of people and how people just exploit their naiveté. The truth is that some of us allow others complete control of the relationship, of our emotions and consequently, our happiness.
I am not advocating that people end relationships at the first sign of trouble but after repeated attempts if things just don't seem to be working out, then there's honestly no point clinging to it. It's important to feel good about yourself and if a relationship seems to be sapping the happiness out of your life then it's time to reevaluate the dynamics.
Natalie Lue says in her article that it is important to regain control of a relationship that you have perceived as uncontrollable and create your own closure. The truth is no one likes to walk away from people you hold close to your heart but sometimes you try so hard not to lose someone that you end up losing yourself in the process. And that is when you need to step back, evaluate the gives and gets of your relationship and take the difficult step to detach yourself. It's time to shift the focus from the other person to the self and assess the ROI (Return on Investment). If you truly know that you have done enough to salvage the relationship, maybe it's time to move on and let things go.
Like my friend said a happy ending completely depends on whether we know when to end the story.
Disclaimer: You wouldn't necessarily apply the same logic to marriage that needs far more consideration before you start thinking of an exit strategy.

Steve Jobs' Giving Inputs about his Past

Drawing from some of the most pivotal points in his life, Steve Jobs, chief executive officer and co-founder of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, urged graduates to pursue their dreams and see the opportunities in life's setbacks -- including death itself -- at the university's 114th Commencement on June 12, 2005.

AKSHAR GANESH

Lord Ganesh sketch from one letter by Nitish Bharti

Lords Ganesha and Krishna Goes 3D

Life Spaces Offers prayers and perform rituals at virtual pandal. Shoonya Game Technologies now offers and interactibe 3D Ganesh temple pandal darshan that allows people to offer prayers as well as perform authentic rituals virtually.

Krishna darshan that was launched earlier. Sai Baba Temple is next on agenda and build your home in 3D is in pipeline.

To see these version users will need to install Unity Webplayer to view the 3D content. You can download it from Unity's Website

Good Manners & Handling Difficult People.

Do your children "lose it" when you're out in public? You know they can use Good manners, but once they step out your front door, does it seem they can't remember anything? Don't worry, you're not alone. This can be one of  "The most frustrating parts of parenting!"

A bully at your work is difficult for you to face. They are demanding you do part of his job without any credit to you. How do you handle it?
Your father is unhappy about your career choice. He constantly criticizes

The contents are as below.

1) Introduction: We all have Trouble with These People

2) Strategies: Give Yourself Permission to Defend Yourself

3) Four Types: 2 to Worry About; 2 Simpler to Handle

4) Patterns for Each Type: Attackers; Complainers; Know It Falls; Ineffective.

5) Accept Your Losses; Distance Them for Results

6) Effective Strategies

7) Have the End in Mind

8) Family Members

9) Friends

10) Professional & Business & Community

Your work and points out what they think you should do. How do you deal with him?

To deal with such situations, we need to be smart and a little tactful; knowing how to be smart is the key.

In this situation your inner source of

v Patience.

v Confidence.

v Skills.

v Assessing.

v Talent.

Which will help you in handling difficult people?

A) Handling Difficult People: Difficult situations are part of everyone's life. Employers and employees can't get along. Partners clash over money.

Spouses cannot resolve disagreements. If you ignore these situations, they always get worse. Employees get fired, partnerships and marriages break up, everyone is miserable. When you face and resolve the problem yourself, you feel wonderful. You are in control of your life. You not only conquer the opposition, you conquer your fear. If you implement the above said 5 inner wonderful source in with yourself then it will guide you in dealing with difficult people.

Note: Commenting and writing is very simple but implementing on it is very difficult.

If he Can,Why Can't We?

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Learn Yoga Online

ABC-OF-YOGA has all the various Asanas listed according to postures like sitting, standing and even twisting – rather than their ancient names – making it easy for novices to understand. It's easy-to-spot sections makes a good guide for Yoga amateurs and pros alike.

Nurturing Mind, Body and Spirit

Daily OM is the perfect place to spend time nurturing your body, mind and spirit. It is filled with informative articles on self improvement, healthy living, nature and philosophy.

Retro TV Shows and Movies

Retro Junk actively profiles TV shows and movies from the 70s, 80s and early 90s, complete with write-ups, trailers and intro videos from those monstrosities. So if you are itching for a blast from the past, you might want to visit this Web site.

Collection Of Poems

Poem Hunter With over 3,10,000 poems by 24,752 poets, more than 12,000 songs by 10,145 artists and a whopping 64,870 quotable quotes. This seems to be “right on track” in its aim to spread the joy of words.

Collection Of Poems

Poem Hunter With over 3,10,000 poems by 24,752 poets, more than 12,000 songs by 10,145 artists and a whopping 64,870 quotable quotes. This seems to be “right on track” in its aim to spread the joy of words.

Dowry Calculator

Dowry Calculator Tanul Thakur, an electrical engineer's, Dowry Calculator become a rage among Indian Netizens. It was released on May 6, 2011. Thakur spend good amount of time researching castes and dowry market of the country. The reaction has been overwhelming positive in Facebook and Twitter.